Today is a blah day. The weather is gray and I am tired. S had a rough morning full of bad choices. J fought his nap like crazy and I lost a chunk of time because of it.
But I’ve been thinking a lot recently. (Okay, my whole life I’ve been thinking a lot. I’m part melancholy…it’s what I do.) I want to infuse more gratefulness in my life. I have so much to be grateful for! And when I choose to remember those things, the bad things seem so much smaller, if not trivial even. On Pinterest there’s been a saying circulating, “What if you woke up tomorrow with only the things you thanked God for today?” Well, that’s a sobering thought! I can suddenly think of a few thousand things for which to be grateful! I posted that saying on my fridge this past weekend where I could see that reminder frequently.
So I decided I’ll do a list today of ten things I’m grateful for. That will definitely help with the blahs. Why 10? No particular reason. 4000 seemed too long, 3 seems too short.
So here goes:
1. Health. We are all quite healthy. We don’t even have anyone in a cast anymore!
2. Freedom. There are endless examples here, but some on my mind today are the freedoms to drive, vote, and travel. By myself. Without my husband, brother, or father. In Saudi Arabia the king just granted women the right to vote (though not for a few more years. Grr.) However, they still cannot drive or travel out of the country by themselves. (I’m sure that is only the tip of the iceberg on how women are treated there.) We take quite a bit we take for granted, don’t we?
3. My kids. Even when they drive me crazy (which is often.) I can’t imagine life without them and I am enormously blessed to have them.
4. My husband. Even when he drives me crazy (which is often.) I can’t imagine life without him and I am enormously blessed to have him. Even with the silly redundancy, I am really grateful for my family. We’ve been through the lot the last few years, and I’m thankful we’re surviving together.
5. J. Every time I hear about a baby in NICU or with health issues I remember what a gift our healthy boy is. BTW, there is a little baby named Levi fighting for his life. He needs his lungs to open up soon so he can breathe and stay alive. I’ve never met this family, but I know some of their agony. And I know they’d be so grateful if you said a prayer for their baby.
As I write this I’m watching my three kids play. Someone is about to fight/cry/scream/etc. And it’s a gift. They’re together. They’re healthy. They drive me crazy. And I love them.
6. Clean Water. I don’t spend all day hiking to get water. I turn on the tap and clean, safe water comes out.
7. A house. Two to be exact. We’re renting out our house in Michigan; Sheri and her family are doing a fabulous job with it. We’re renting a house here and it has issues. Seriously, our ancient house in Michigan is more sound than this one. But it’s a good space for us. And it has space. (Though usually the kids want to be right by me rather than in some of the other spaces of the house…which is a mixed blessing!) Outside it just started raining and lightning. I’m very grateful for this house.
8. Music. Do I really need to say more?
9. Plenty of food to eat. I won’t even mention the millions starving right now. Oh, I guess I just did.
10. A hot shower. It can soothe, revive, restore, and even get the stink off.
Speaking of food…I’ll bet my family would be grateful if I started on dinner soon!
What are you thankful for today? Would you like to share?
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